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Road Trip Games for Families

road-tripTraveling with children in the car can sometimes be difficult and make the trip something to be dreaded instead of enjoyed.  My husband’s family lives 24 hours northwest of us and I can remember vividly one time when we had to drive there in one day. There was an emergency that made time of the essence. Our youngest son asked us on several occasions, “Are we there yet?” and once when we stopped for gas he yelled, “Yay! Daddy, you win the prize!” because he thought we had arrived. It broke my heart to tell him we were not there yet.  So, what are some activities you can do while in the car to pass the time? Almost all of these games require paper and pencil, so be sure and take them along with you.

Car/ truck tally  My mom would tell us what color and/or model of car that she wanted us to look for and we would compete against each other. The first one to spot ten wins. Our favorite was to look for Volks Wagon Beetles. 🙂

I Spy Have you ever played this game? You find something that is in the car and say, “I spy with my eye a___ and the color is _____.” Everyone in the car takes turns guessing what it is and you can determine how many guesses it will take until it is another person’s turn.

Paper and Pencil Games Bring along paper to play games such as: Tic-Tac-Toe, Hangman, Categories (explained below), Squiggles and Doodles (see below for explanation).

Scavenger Hunt Make a list of things you might see along the way. Draw pictures or help your littles ones who are not reading by calling out what is next on the list. Each person scratches off the items that they see on their list. You need a person to verify your finding so that children just check off lists and say, “I found all of them!” when they really didn’t. Here is a list of items you could use: a red car (or any other color), a barn, a body of water, a semi truck, a school bus, a restaurant sign, a gas station, a broken down car along the highway, a rest area

Categories Draw a grid on a piece of paper—a square filled with smaller squares. The number of squares can vary, depending on the attention span of your child. Down the left side, put some letters of the alphabet (for example, you could spell out a child’s name: LISA). Across the top, write categories —for example, girls’ names, boys’ names, animals, colors, cars, places. You can make this harder or easier by changing the categories. Players take turns writing in words that fit the category and start with the letter in the left-hand column. (Next to the letter L, in this example, you might have Laura, Liam, lion, lavender, Lexus and Lexington.) Give extra points for words that nobody else wrote. (Idea courtesy of Today’s Parent)

Squiggles and Doodles– This is a game that I just named! But, we always loved to play this when I was growing up. You draw a squiggle or a doodle on the page and then give it to the next person who must add another squiggle or doodle to it. Keep passing papers until you receive your original doodle. Since I grew up with artistic people I would get some pretty fun things back when we finished a round! 🙂

Password Make a list of nouns and give one item on the list to one player. This person must use one word clues to describe what the object is for the person who is guessing. For instance, the word is tree. You say: leaves, trunk, wood, bark and the person wins if they guess the word in 30 seconds. Keep on going! nouns you can use: cow, dog, cat, shoe,  beach, house, just to name a few…

I hope you enjoy these games. Have a great trip!

~Lisa

 

 

Helping Children Tell the Truth

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He who permits himself to tell a lie once,

Finds it much easier to do it a second  and third time,

until at length it becomes habitual.

He tells without attending to it,

and truths  without the world’s believing him.

~Thomas Jefferson~

Telling the truth has been a challenge since the beginning of time, starting in the Garden of Eden. It is important for our children to be taught to tell and uphold the truth. Every one of us is faced with the opportunity to lie when faced with a consequence we may not want. So, how do we help children tell the truth, especially when they know that there will be unfavorable consequences?

  1. Let him/her know the truth is always the best. I have a confession to make. When I was little, I was a liar. I remember as a first grader I had fabricated so many tales I couldn’t keep them all straight! I can remember my mom confronting me and when I confessed I felt so much better. I tried not to lie from that day forward because I never wanted to be known as a liar.
  2. Provide your child with an opportunity to tell the truth. Have you ever accused your child of not telling the truth only to discover you were wrong? I sure have! If you know (or think you know) they have lied, bring up the subject in a non-threatening way so that they have the opportunity to confess and correct what they have done.
  3. Show mercy when s/he tells the truth. Shouldn’t there be a consequence for lying? Yes, but I found that if I could extend grace to my sons, this provided an environment to admit they had lied and seek forgiveness.
  4. Make the punishment fit the crime. If your child lies about something and you know it could lead to bigger issues, punish them according to the offense to show them the consequences of lying. We had an incident in our home where a lie was told and the offender had to go to an adult they didn’t know and confess what they had done. I believe he never wanted to have to repeat that!
  5. Council and pray with your child. Get to the reason as to why they chose to lie if you are able. Pray with him/her afterwards.
  6. Let your child know you love them. That is so important because children feel bad in disappointing us. Let him/her know everyone makes mistakes, but being honest will build trust as lying erodes that trust.
  7. Give them a big hug! When a child confesses that they have lied, be quick to forgive and squeeze the stuffings out of them!

Have a great week!

~Lisa

 

 

Laundry Product Alternatives

Every once in a while I write about something besides topics that are not directly related to teaching.  Since homeschooling involves every aspect of our lives, I wanted to tell you about a couple of laundry products that I am trying out. I have been looking for natural alternatives to laundry detergent ingredients that I can’t even pronounce the names and chemical laden dryer sheets. I found two products that I have been very pleased with and wanted to share with you!

Soap Nuts When I first heard about these I couldn’t quite figure out what they were. I thought maybe I had to prepare a soapy concoction, then gather nuts (acorns or some such thing), and have the laundry soap adhere to them somehow. I am happy to report that this is not the case! Are you curious? 🙂

Soap nuts are actually called by the Latin term sapindus. It is a genus of about five to twelve species of shrubs and small trees in the Lychee family, Sapindaceae, native to warm temperate to tropical regions in both the Old World and New World. (wikipedia) Here is a picture of the plant. (Ooo! Ahh!)

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The interesting property that these nuts have is that they release a soapy substance.The nuts are dried and harvested and sold to consumers. These nuts can be used several times for your laundry loads before they have to be thrown away. You put the nuts in a muslin bag that is provided and use 5-6 of them per load. I just have to be careful to locate the bag as I am emptying the washing machine. So far,  I am averaging 4 extra large loads per 6 nuts. It is actually cheaper than the expensive name brand soaps and the natural types of liquid detergents too. soap-nuts-laundry-soap

I have been using these for a few weeks and I think they are working quite well. There is a slight vinegar smell when the soap nuts are wet, but I can’t smell anything when the clothes come out of the washing machine. I have quite a good sense of smell too! You can add a few drops of essential oils if you like to your wash water, but I haven’t done this.  If you are interested in learning more about the product I am using, here is a link. CLICK HERE 

Wool Dryer Balls are the other new product I have been using. These New Zealand wool balls actually absorb the moisture from your clothing while they are tumbling in your dryer. They lift your clothes and help reduce static that accumulates. I bought a package of 6, and while the directions say you do not need to use all of them in your loads, I have found that I need to use all of them if I am drying a large to extra large load.  If I use fewer of them, the clothes are not quite dry and there is a little bit of static.

Overall, I am pleased with the wool balls and just need to be careful taking out the clothes as they want to roll out onto the floor. I just leave them in the dryer instead of removing them every time. They are surprisingly dry and I do not think they will mildew if I do this. They are supposed to last for several years and I am sure that depends upon how many times per week you have to use them. I am figuring that if they last a couple of years I will have saved money over buying dryer sheets. Here is a link if you would like to check out a description of this type of product. CLICK HERE

 

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By the way, I am not being paid to give a review on either of these products. 🙂 I was wanting to share some ways I am trying to take care of my family without breaking the piggy bank. Have a great day!

~Lisa

A Minute to Win It Games

I had the family over for dinner and some games afterwards. Have you ever played A Minute to Win It? I had seen these ideas on happiness is homemade . I created a spreadsheet and whoever got the best time for each activity  won that event. Our daughter-in-law was the overall winner, but I won the Cookie Face contest. 🙂 You can modify these games for your children if you would like to try them.   You can give points for completion or participation and use a smaller amount with the various games. Our special treat for the winner was a bag of Skinny Pop popcorn because everyone in my family loves popcorn!

Here is the spreadsheet I created to keep track of the games and descriptions of each of the games. If  you are interested in seeing a close-up of the document click here:  minute-to-win-it-games  I am including pictures of the fun too!

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Hex Nut Stacker

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Cookie face

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Cookie Face- almost there!

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Stack it Up!

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Suck it Up!

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Scoop It Up

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Movin’ on Up!

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Defy Gravity

As you can see, we had a lot of fun! So, if you are looking for something fun to do with your family, why not try some of these or create your own Minute to Win It games?

~Lisa

Online Music Game

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Music is something that I appreciate, but do not feel qualified to teach. Since that is not one of my strengths and I suspect some others may feel this way, I’d like to give you an online resource to help. It is called the Young Person’s Guide to the Orchestra that has been produced by the Weill Music Institute ay Carnegie Hall.

This is a comprehensive overview of the instruments of the orchestra and would certainly meet the requirement of teaching music to your elementary student. It is interactive, interesting, and well done. I found myself wanting to continue on with the adventure as I think your pupil will as well.  The adventures center around a young lady helping her eccentric uncle locate the instruments to fill an ancient amphitheater.  There are activities the children must complete that test their knowledge as they go on a treasure hunt to find the lost instruments.  I would suggest that you create an account if you wish to use this throughout the year.  I believe you and your child are going to visit here often as part of your music studies. To see for yourself CLICK HERE